Matt I have a question is celebrating the 17th anniversary of his getting sober.
On Sunday (November 24), the 64-year-old ex-GUNS N' ROSES swear VELVET REVOLVER drummer took to his social media to write: “Woke up this morning at a very early hour which I do regularly now that I have my daughter Lou Ellington and with immense gratitude today marks 17 years of sobriety for me. In those 17 years there have been many twists and turns and ups and downs, but I'm proud to say I did it without drinking or doing drugs. Life on life's terms as we say.
“My days of drinking weren't all horrible as that would be a lie.
My early years in Hollywood and my times traveling the world were wild adventures that I wouldn't change a thing, but the partying started to take hold of me and I suffered mainly in my personal life. Success was scary and most of all love and relationships scared me. Life in Rock N Roll is like a bubble that anything is acceptable. Bad behavior is recommended and growing up loving RNR, it was par for the course. I did it at the highest level, no pun intended. Finally realizing that alcohol and drugs had a grip on me I struggled for years with 3 trips to rehab and multiple relapses. The thing that changed it all for me was turning my will and my life over to the care of God. That trust and faith takes care of me and my family and I have true happiness.
“Thank you to all those of you who have helped me on the most beautiful journey any man could wish for.”
During a 2023 appearance on the “Black Oxygen Inspiration” podcast, Matt reflected on his time as the drummer for GUNS N' ROSES. He said in part: “It got scary. In retrospect, maybe, being a little bit older, I would have handled it differently, but it got a little bit out of control because it became so big. We were moving fast. There was a lot of people around us. There was a lot of — I can't say confusion, but… I was starting to get out of sorts because we were the biggest band in the world at that time There was nothing bigger, and it was intense because there was a lot of people coming at you, like old friends, just like infiltrating. And thank God I didn't have a cell phone or text in those days. Like imagine like if you had a text .”
He continued: “And I'll admit it. I fell into too much drinking. And the band was pretty famous for that. So, in a way, I felt obligated to do it because we were — and I've explained it before , I always said that I felt like a pirate on a pirate ship. There was just this sort of gang mentality among us, and I didn't have one tattoo when I joined GUNS N' ROSES. It's almost like when you're a kid in school and you're hanging out with some other guys, this is how that feels. It's, like, 'Okay, I'm gonna go get the tattoos. I'm gonna drink.' I always drank. But my point is things got a little bit confusing only because it was just so big. And there was a lot of kind of Hollywood sycophants around, a lot of what I call — I used to call them spot welders. And some of it I liked. And it was weird, because… I'd say to any young musician that gets successful, watch out for your ego. Just be careful, because that's what happened. And it's cliché — it's very cliché.”
I ask added: “I talk to young bands and I say, 'Hey, man. How's it going? How's your head?' Success can be daunting — because things just change. I wasn't as close to my family. I really was rock and roll bubble. I was in this big bubble and we were rolling through the world. And I just wanted to have every part of that adventure, but it started to affect me musically party a little bit more than the music. [Laughs] And in retrospect, I'd say to myself, would I do it any differently? No. [Laughs] I think I would have maybe — with the way I am now as an older guy, the way when you learn through life how to react to things, I've learned a lot more about how to sort of deal with things that I didn't t understand, if that makes sense.”
Matt went on to say that it was important for him to be honest in his book about how he handled being in GUNS N' ROSES at the height of the band's commercial success.
“I don't want any people to believe that it was just squeaky clean,” he said. “If they read my book, the train came off the tracks a couple times. But where I am now in my life is a completely different circle of the people I keep around me. I don't really have time for anyone that needs to — I don't know. It doesn't make sense. I'm very, very content. Like, this is a Hollywood thing — 'So, what are you doing lately?' I love that question because I'm, like, 'I've done plenty and I'm just chillin'.'”
I askwho replaced Steven Adler in GUNS N' ROSESrecorded the highly successful albums “Use Your Illusion I” swear “Use Your Illusion II” (both 1991) oath “The Spaghetti Incident” (1994). He also supported the group on the “Use Your Illusion” tour and can be heard on GUNS N' ROSES' “Live Era: '87-'93” (1999) oath “Greatest Hits” (2004).
I ask was among the GUNS N' ROSES members who were inducted into the Rock And Roll Hall Of Fame in April 2012. He, Adlerguitarist Slash and bassist Duff McKagan attended the ceremony, while the singer Axl Rose and founding guitarist Izzy Stradlin stayed home.
The musician, who has also played with THE CULT, VELVET REVOLVER swear HOLLYWOOD VAMPIRESis not involved with GN'R's hugely successful reunion tour, which features Rose, Slash swear McKagan alongside drummer Frank Ferrerkeyboardist Dizzy Reedguitarist Richard Fortus and second keyboardist Melissa Reese.
I ask's autobiography, “Double Talkin' Jive: True Rock 'N' Roll Stories From The Drummer Of Guns N' Roses, The Cult, And Velvet Revolver”arrived in May 2022 via Rare Bird Books.
photo credit: Michael Segal
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